At the end of Pink Floyd’s The Wall, after all the chaos has ended and the wall has fallen the music slows down and it gives you a sense of a new beginning. I have only seen The Wall once but this scene has stayed with me. After every disaster if you are lucky enough, you get a chance at a new beginning. A chance to rebuild and possibly be happy again.
My mother says, if universe takes something away from you, it will give you back something else. As cliche as it sounds, it’s true. You just have to have the balls to take a chance again.
When disaster is a personal disaster, it is very difficult to rebuild especially if you are trying to keep everybody happy. Those who knew you before the disaster think you are moving too fast and those who you have met after, complain you are not moving fast enough. Chances are both group’s are right, but you are the only person in charge of yours and your family’s happiness. If you fail, at least you tried. After a disaster it’s up to the survivors to rebuild. Universe may give you an other chance but you have to have the guts to take it.